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COURTESY OF YAP-BANAGO FAMILY It was always “others first” with Celia Yap-Banago, RN (holding dog). |
Mothers Day this year was especially poignant for those families of nurses who lost their lives caring for COVID-19 patients.
Losing even one registered nurse impacts countless lives. Losing more than 400 of them to Covid-19 — many of them mothers, in a women-dominated profession — changes families and communities across the country forever.
Losing even one registered nurse impacts countless lives. Losing more than 400 of them to Covid-19 — many of them mothers, in a women-dominated profession — changes families and communities across the country forever.
This Mother’s Day, the children of two Filipino American RN mothers who died of Covid-19 looks back at his moms’ incredible contributions to the world, and speaking out for nurse protections so no more families have to stand in their shoes.
The stories, courtesy of National Nurses United, the largest union of registered nurses in the U.S., tells us of two Filipino American RNs, but they represent the scores of Filipino American nurses who have died since the pandemic began last year.
“I would do anything and everything to bring back mom for five minutes,” said Jhulan Banago, 29. “We can’t do that and change anything, but moving forward, you have to be pretty damn proud of a parent who lost the fight to Covid because they were helping treat patients with Covid.”
Jhulan’s mother Celia Yap-Banago died of Covid-19 on April 21, 2020 — just short of her 40th work anniversary as a registered nurse at Research Medical Center in Kansas City, Mo. Now, Jhulan, his brother Josh, and his father Amado, take a short drive from their home to the nearby cemetery every weekend with flowers and Yap-Banago’s favorite snack: chips and a coke. They’ll do the same on Mother’s Day, followed by a barbecue with cousins, who are also nurses.
“We still set out a plate [for her] any time we eat, because we want her to know we are still thinking of her,” said Jhulan. “She is still very, very loved.”
“Everyone always says we wouldn’t be where we are today without certain people. In regards to my family, the reason why we are here today is because of mom,” said Jhulan, citing his mom’s hard work, getting her education, and becoming the first in her family to move from the Philippines to the United States. Other family members followed, and she helped every step of the way.
“She opened the doors to my cousins no questions asked, took them under her roof, under her wing. It was definitely ‘others first’ with mom,” said Jhulan, noting that even when his mother was sick with Covid, she talked about going back to work.
Yap-Banago and her colleagues demanded optimal PPE in the earliest days of the pandemic. Instead, Research Medical Center, owned by the extremely wealthy HCA Healthcare corporate hospital chain, locked up and rationed N95 respirators. More than a year after her death, her fellow nurses are still fighting for even basic protections, as her colleague Pascaline Muhindura testified to the U.S. House Subcommittee on Workforce Protections in March.
“I say this as someone who lost their mom: Everyone working with patients and people with Covid should have the proper PPE to do their job safely,” said Jhulan, who still keeps in touch with his mother’s coworkers. They even met for a socially distant lunch on the anniversary of her death. While his mother never wanted the spotlight, he thinks she would be proud to know that her story has been shared widely, all the way to Congress, in support of protections that could save her colleagues’ lives.
“The more her story gets out, the more it should hopefully give people the courage to fight for what they think is right. I hope no more 29-year-olds have to go through what I did. I hope no more families have to go through what we did,” said Jhulan. “Mom is a hero — she has always been mine.”
Jhulan’s mother Celia Yap-Banago died of Covid-19 on April 21, 2020 — just short of her 40th work anniversary as a registered nurse at Research Medical Center in Kansas City, Mo. Now, Jhulan, his brother Josh, and his father Amado, take a short drive from their home to the nearby cemetery every weekend with flowers and Yap-Banago’s favorite snack: chips and a coke. They’ll do the same on Mother’s Day, followed by a barbecue with cousins, who are also nurses.
“We still set out a plate [for her] any time we eat, because we want her to know we are still thinking of her,” said Jhulan. “She is still very, very loved.”
“Everyone always says we wouldn’t be where we are today without certain people. In regards to my family, the reason why we are here today is because of mom,” said Jhulan, citing his mom’s hard work, getting her education, and becoming the first in her family to move from the Philippines to the United States. Other family members followed, and she helped every step of the way.
“She opened the doors to my cousins no questions asked, took them under her roof, under her wing. It was definitely ‘others first’ with mom,” said Jhulan, noting that even when his mother was sick with Covid, she talked about going back to work.
Yap-Banago and her colleagues demanded optimal PPE in the earliest days of the pandemic. Instead, Research Medical Center, owned by the extremely wealthy HCA Healthcare corporate hospital chain, locked up and rationed N95 respirators. More than a year after her death, her fellow nurses are still fighting for even basic protections, as her colleague Pascaline Muhindura testified to the U.S. House Subcommittee on Workforce Protections in March.
“I say this as someone who lost their mom: Everyone working with patients and people with Covid should have the proper PPE to do their job safely,” said Jhulan, who still keeps in touch with his mother’s coworkers. They even met for a socially distant lunch on the anniversary of her death. While his mother never wanted the spotlight, he thinks she would be proud to know that her story has been shared widely, all the way to Congress, in support of protections that could save her colleagues’ lives.
“The more her story gets out, the more it should hopefully give people the courage to fight for what they think is right. I hope no more 29-year-olds have to go through what I did. I hope no more families have to go through what we did,” said Jhulan. “Mom is a hero — she has always been mine.”
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COURTESY OF KENNETH YUMANG Kenneth Yumang, right, lost his father and mother to COVID-19. |
Regina Yumang would go to the mall with her friends and come home with clothes that her son Kenneth, 19, hadn’t even asked her to buy. She was just that generous.
“My mom was a very loving mom. I’m an only child, and when I was growing up, she always gave her full attention to me,” said Kenneth, a college student studying accounting and finance. “She was the best mom I could have ever asked for.”
Regina worked as a nurse for several years in the Philippines, where she grew up. In 1986, she pursued her dream of coming to the United States, landing in the New York City area and meeting her husband, Dennis. When Covid struck, she was caring for patients in the ICU at the Manhattan VA, where she had worked since 1993.
Kenneth said his mom absolutely loved being a nurse. But when he picked her up from work during the initial months of Covid, it was obvious the pandemic was taking a toll.
“She always felt so depressed. In the first wave in March, in the ICU, all the Covid patients passed away,” he said. “She always felt so sad for those people who passed in the first wave because they had no family to be with them.
Although they were concerned about the virus, Kennth said as the months passed, his family began to worry less about his mother catching it. Then there was the second wave.
Regina Yumang was hospitalized with Covid on Dec. 17. Kenneth’s father Dennis also became ill and landed in the hospital on Dec. 19, passing away just three days later. Regina died on Jan. 17, 2021 at the age of 62.
“In our faith, we would say, the Lord takes the good people away early,” said Kenneth, who now lives at his uncle’s home, and who has coped with the loss of both parents through his Catholic faith and by being around family. This Mother’s Day, he will place chocolate and flowers near his mother’s urn to let her know how much he loves her and how proud he is that she fought to save so many lives. He hopes anyone else who lost an RN mom to Covid feels the same.
“Our moms are heroes, and they did everything they could to save more people. They thought of others before themselves,” said Kenneth, who believes nurses deserve strong protections. “Our mothers will always be with us, watching over us.”
(They are) “the reason we are here today.”
“My mom was a very loving mom. I’m an only child, and when I was growing up, she always gave her full attention to me,” said Kenneth, a college student studying accounting and finance. “She was the best mom I could have ever asked for.”
Regina worked as a nurse for several years in the Philippines, where she grew up. In 1986, she pursued her dream of coming to the United States, landing in the New York City area and meeting her husband, Dennis. When Covid struck, she was caring for patients in the ICU at the Manhattan VA, where she had worked since 1993.
Kenneth said his mom absolutely loved being a nurse. But when he picked her up from work during the initial months of Covid, it was obvious the pandemic was taking a toll.
“She always felt so depressed. In the first wave in March, in the ICU, all the Covid patients passed away,” he said. “She always felt so sad for those people who passed in the first wave because they had no family to be with them.
Although they were concerned about the virus, Kennth said as the months passed, his family began to worry less about his mother catching it. Then there was the second wave.
Regina Yumang was hospitalized with Covid on Dec. 17. Kenneth’s father Dennis also became ill and landed in the hospital on Dec. 19, passing away just three days later. Regina died on Jan. 17, 2021 at the age of 62.
“In our faith, we would say, the Lord takes the good people away early,” said Kenneth, who now lives at his uncle’s home, and who has coped with the loss of both parents through his Catholic faith and by being around family. This Mother’s Day, he will place chocolate and flowers near his mother’s urn to let her know how much he loves her and how proud he is that she fought to save so many lives. He hopes anyone else who lost an RN mom to Covid feels the same.
“Our moms are heroes, and they did everything they could to save more people. They thought of others before themselves,” said Kenneth, who believes nurses deserve strong protections. “Our mothers will always be with us, watching over us.”
(They are) “the reason we are here today.”
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