Bachlorette: Jonathon, we hardly got to know you

Jon Hamilton revealed too much, too soon to Bachelorette Jojo Fletcher.

ALAS, the kilt didn't help Jonathan Hamilton in his quest to win the heart of this season's Bachelorette, Jojo Fletcher.

The Vancouver bachelor, whose bio looked awesome on paper, wasn't able to translate his accomplishments into social attractiveness during his brief stint on last night's (May 23) premiere. In fact, Jonathan might be credited with one of the most awkward introductions:

Jonathan's initial strategy was sound. Showing up in a kilt did separate him from the 20 other look-alikes. Right away, he wanted to attack the Asian male stereotype (AMS), but in doing so, he also reinforced it. Whether or not that was intentional or if he was prodded by producers, we can't say.

Jon is of Chinese and Scottish descent so showing up in a kilt kind of makes sense. But that was not the embarrassing part. What made us cringe is when he told JoJo that luckily he was "Scottish below the waist," and that he was going commando. Uh, bro - too much, too soon. It was certainly an off-kilt-er comment that probably made Jojo think, "see you later!"

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In the end, Jonathan was sent packing. The only saving grace is that he was not alone. Also saying their goodbyes were Jake (not Pavelka), Coley Knust, Sal DeJulio, Nick S., and Peter.

Poor Jonathan. We hardly got to know you. As the morning-after quarterback, my advice would be: Be yourself and embrace your Asianess.

I don't want to put so much weight on the shoulders of those AAPI men like Jonathan who, for one reason or another, are put in a position to "represent." It's not fair to them and it's definitely not fair to all of us as we're all unique individuals. But the truth of the matter is, when nonAsians see us, they still fall back on the AMS and other stereotypes like the Dragon Lady, the Tiger Mom, the martial artist and so on.

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Perhaps our only hope is that mainstream media, the purveyors of pop culture, will recognize the market potential of the AAPI community and thus open up more opportunities for more individual AAPI men and women in front of the camera and behind the camera, in front of the computer screen, in print and on stage. The more diverse we present ourselves - without cutting our connections to each other - we begin to chip away at all the stereotypes with which we're saddled.

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Asian bro to compete in The Bachelorette

Jon Hamilton will compete for the heart of the Bachelorette.

JON HAMILTON of Hamilton will be one of the few Asian guys to compete on The Bachelorette.

He'll make his debut this May 23 on the pop phenomenon along with 24 other dudes who all look like they all popped out of GQ cover shoot. Oh, when are they ever going to pick an average-looking guy, with a little gut hanging over the belt?

Thursday morning, ABC released cast photos and biographies for the next season of The Bachelorette, starring Bachelor runner-up JoJo Fletcher. One of these 25 contestants captured our attention immediately: Jonathan Hamilton, a 29-year-old technical sales rep, appears to be one of very few men of East Asian descent to have appeared on the Bachelor franchise.

Jon  Hamilton

According to Reality Steve, the blogger extraordinaire, the Vancouver contestant graduated from Simon Fraser University in 2013 with a B.A. in history and now he's a sales rep for HVAC Solutions. Hamilton also studied mechanical engineering at the British Columbia Institute of Technology. 

Among the attributes Jon listed was "great hair." No argument there. I'm jealous.

We're not sure if he made the right impression with this year's Bachelorette, JoJo Fletcher, who barely lost out being chosen as The One in the previous season. Jon showed up wearing a kilt! A KILT!

I'm sure he got JoJo's attention and maybe that's a clever strategy to stand out from the other contestants and to show that he's not your stereotypical Asian nerd. On the other hand, he may be trying too hard.

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His official ABC biography reveals Jon has tattoos (two of them, in fact: “my grandma on my inner arm and a tiger and Asian artwork on my left shoulder”), demonstrating his ying and yang nature. His favorite authors are J.D. Salinger and R.L. Stine and that he doesn’t believe gluten allergies are “real.” 

Without any confirmation from The Bachelor/Bachelorette franchise, the last time anybody could recall when an Asian contestant was in the show was in the second season in 2004. The Texas dentist Andy Chang, who is Chinese/American, was eliminated in the first week, with the dubious distinction of being the only contestant who didn’t have the opportunity to meet with the Bachelorette alone.

First impressions matter. That's Jon Hamilton in the kilt.

Even though Chang's athleticism and outgoing nature was perhaps the antithesis of the Asian male stereotype (He was named among the Ten Most Eligible Men in Dallas in 2014), he couldn't overcome the popular image that says Asian males are not the romantic enough or can't be "hunks." “After the fact, I think (my ethnicity) worked against me,” Chang told the Chicago Tribune. 

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How will Hamilton fare this time? That's anybody's guess. Not much has changed the harmful stereotype since 2004 except for a couple of romantic roles portrayed by Asian men on television. Is that enough to overcome the stereotype that has haunted Asian males since the Chinese worked on the transcontinental railroad.

Will Jon's participation lead to having an Asian Bachelor? Not if the franchise's past record is any indication. 

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Producers had a chance to star Filipina/American Caila Quinn, who finished third in last season's Bachelor behind JoJo Fletcher and Lauren Bushnell, the woman who won the Bachelor's heart. Filming had started and rumors were flying all over the Internet claiming Cailla was the next Bachelorette but a last minute social media drive by JoJo's fans squashed the opportunity for the producers to break new ground. "Daring" is not an adjective you can attach to The Bachelor/Bachelorette enterprise.

The Bachelor (Season 12) debuts May 23 on ABC, 9 p.m./8 p.m. Central.

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